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10 Ways To Reduce Guilt & Anxiety About Saying No

2024-10-10T13:33:40-07:00

There’s a cultural misconception that saying no is rude or selfish. As children, many of us were taught to be as agreeable as possible—even if that meant sacrificing our own happiness. Feelings of guilt and anxiety about saying no are probably universal, but women seem particularly vulnerable. Many women are so uncomfortable with the idea of displeasing others that they question whether it is ever ok to say no. Despite how uncomfortable it is, saying no is a necessary skill. Everyone has a limited amount of time and energy, so it’s impossible to say yes all the time. If we try Learn More

Managing Your Child’s Unrealistic Career Expectations

2024-10-10T13:34:21-07:00

Are you worried that your emerging adult child’s career goals may be unrealistic or unwise? Maybe your child—who got a D in their last math class—told you they plan to become an engineer. Or your messy teen who can’t keep their assignment due dates straight says they want to be an event planner. Perhaps your college student who dreams of living in luxury just changed their college major to art history. As a parent, you want to support your child in their dreams. But the apparent disconnect between their abilities and their desired career puts you into a difficult position. If Learn More

How COVID Is Affecting Physicians’ Mental Health

2024-10-10T13:36:35-07:00

21st-century physicians face many challenges, including exhausting working hours, increasing administrative demands, and diminishing face time with patients. The mental health ramifications of working in such conditions include alarmingly higher rates of anxiety, burnout, depression, and suicide among doctors versus the general population.[i] Not surprisingly, the COVID-19 pandemic has only made things worse. SARS-CoV-2 is both highly transmissible and incredibly virulent. It can also present physicians with diagnostic challenges due to the variability of COVID-19 symptoms and the relatively long period of asymptomatic infection. The U.S. healthcare system was woefully unprepared for such a novel disease, and doctors are bearing the Learn More

Surviving Your Teen’s Individuation Process

2021-01-04T10:58:42-08:00

Surviving Your Teen's Individuation Process The concept of individuation is referenced in many different psychological theories. The growing independence and autonomy of children—most pronounced during adolescence— is a part of normal development. During individuation, your child is becoming their own person. They're developing who they are, separate from parental influence. Individuation starts in early childhood but is most noticeable (and often most distressing for parents) during adolescence. If your teenage child has recently become more self-focused, this likely means they are individuating. While this is a natural process, it can often seem problematic from a parent's perspective. Your teen may have Learn More

10 Steps To Set Rules & Consequences For Your Teenager

2020-12-08T20:09:22-08:00

Are You Wondering How To Set Rules And Consequences For Your Teenager? Setting boundaries for a teen is rarely fun. Most parents aren’t sure what rules they should set or what the consequences should be for breaking them. They also worry about the impact it will have on their relationship with their children. Nevertheless, boundaries must be made to keep teens safe. Are you feeling the need for more order and predictability in your household? Follow the process I’ve outlined below to minimize conflict while you create more security and structure. 10 Steps To Setting Effective Teenage Rules And Consequences Step Learn More

A Surprising Way To Decrease Stress At Work

2024-10-10T13:47:55-07:00

A Surprising Way To Decrease Stress At Work Is your job stressing you out? If so, you might assume that putting in even more effort will reduce your anxiety. Perhaps you believe that if you could finish that next task quickly and perfectly, you could finally relax. That means committing 110% of yourself to the task at hand. Right? Not necessarily. It is true that focused effort can reduce some kinds of workplace stress. For example, if you’re nervous about an upcoming presentation, setting aside some time to practice can help you feel more prepared. However, if you spend all night Learn More

Trying To Survive Online Classes With ADHD? 7 Tips

2024-10-10T20:31:28-07:00

Trying To Survive Online Classes With ADHD? 7 Tips Are you enrolled in online college classes? If you’re barely hanging on, you’re not alone. With novel coronavirus forcing many universities to transition classes to an online format, many people who thought they would be studying on campus are now stuck in front of a computer. The lack of structure—and growing uncertainty about what the future may bring—is taking its toll. Self-confidence is eroding. Some people have told me they are thinking about dropping out. Many students, especially those with ADHD, are at the breaking point. Learn More

Work-Life Balance Vs. Work-Life Integration: Pros & Cons

2024-10-10T20:35:16-07:00

What Is Work-Life Balance, And Why Is It Important? The definition of work-life balance is an equilibrium between time spent on professional endeavors and investment in non-work priorities such as health, family, and school. Oftentimes, people think of overwhelm and overwork when they hear that phrase. Professional responsibilities tend to be pressing, urgent, and time-consuming. So, it feels like work-life balance is continuously under threat for most people. Learn More

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